Encouraging Our Young Athletes Toward Success
If you focus on simply beating others, even a medal around your neck won’t bring real fulfillment. But if you compete to meet your own standards, to be better than you were yesterday, then you’ll find true satisfaction. Victory is about growth, not just trophies or medals.
What will my child gain by being in gymnastics?
Gymnasts (along with other athletes in other sports) learn about teamwork, sportsmanship, fair play, dedication, perseverance, goal setting and planning.
Gymnastics shows children that rewards are….
How to support your athlete
Remember and share with your child that their worth is not based on the outcome of a game, meet, class, or score. Helping them to understand that no outcome is final and that tomorrow begins the opportunity to change the result you had today will help your child understand and deal with the frustrations that come with sports.
Special Post: Mixed Emotions on the Passing of a Giant
So, I am saddened by Bela’s passing. I believe that his soul will return to this Earth to try again and hopefully he will evolve and grow to refill the holes he had dug in this go-around. Until then, I will respect the gifts he shared with the world, but will always qualify that respect against the damage he left us to clean up.
Words that can make a difference
Sometimes, when you least expect it, hearing someone say “thank you” can really lift your mood and give you a burst of energy. And when you feel appreciated, you’re more likely to spread that kindness to others. It’s like a wave that keeps going.
Allowing kids to choose their passion
If the child pulls back and the parent ends up wanting it more than the kid, there will be dire consequences. Not only will the child stagnate in development, but they will feel resentment toward the parent that is pressuring them to continue. “Not my kid.” I have heard parents say on a few occasions. But I am here to tell you. Yes, your kid. Allow them to make their decision to continue or re-choose, not only for the sport development, but because your child needs to feel that they have some say in the investment of their time and effort.